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Sent to a friend[626] Babies Daddy Aint that bad
I used to be best friends with this girl, who turned out to be a total dogg. anyways, me and a heap of other girls really hated her but never had to guts to do anything about it.one day literally about 4 years later, i was sitting with a friend and we saw a picture of the girl we hated so many years ago.
so we decide to make a box and give it to her, we put in it compromising pictures of her, scanky notes she had written in school, articles, dog busicuts, the works.
After we had made it we weren\'t sure what to do with it, so we went to out local shops and bought some eggs.
I am ashamed to say, 4 years after i had a fight with this girl we went to her house (her parents house) dropped the box by the door and egged it.
we did about 5 rounds in the car, just driving back and egging it more.
then her brother came out, and he looked real angry...he ran back into the house and got some eggs of his own. we started having this fight with her brother, and eventually he got egged so bad we could see the bruises begining to color.
he ran back inside and we all laughed and then we felt we\'d had our fix and went home.
about 2 weeks ago the girl who we were doing it to rang me, shit scared i thought she had found out what we had done.
it turned out, that she had just had a baby.
she said that becoming a mother had changed her, and that she was sorry for our differences in school and wanted to know if i was interested in coming to see the baby.
naturally i was, i hadn\'t been in their house for ages.
anyways i went and whatever, her and i actually became pretty good friends again.
in trust she confessed to me, something she found really embarrassing.
the night she was expected home after having the baby, she said she got there and it was completley egged.
the WHOLE family, including the brother thinks it was the babies father with a bunch of his mates.
Im rather good friends with her, and am over there alot playing with the baby or having dinner with the family and they ALWAYS bring up what happened and how they think its such a disgrace, they say he is never going to have access to the little baby girl because he doesn\'t dererve it.
the worst is that my friend is actually quite upset that someone she loved, did that to her.
she understand, he isn\'t ready to be a dad but did he have to go that far, embarress her like that to her family.
she is so sad about what she will have to tell her little girl when she asks \"where is my daddy\'
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
some days i feel sooooo bad about this.
especially when we are all sitting round the dinner table and they bring it up, like they always do!
I feel soooo slack when i see her struggle in life, and then on top of the struggle coz she thinks her ex hates her soooo much and hates her little girl.
it seriously makes her so sad, she\'s only a young mum and this false belief couldn\'t be helping.
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Comments
- If you are a tru friend to her, then you have to tell her the truth. She has the right to know, and her baby has the right to know. Even if your relation MIGHT end, you have to do what is right. You are being unfair, not only to her, but to her babay who really needs a father and to yourself to live a lie like this. you might destroy your your friendship but you will be building a family for your friend. After all, your friendship might not be over.
- Write her a letter of explanation and make it up to her if she will allow you to.
- Yeah . . . on this one, you need to grow some balls, even if you are a girl, and 'fess up. Otherwise this will eat the living shit out of you forever. She may hate your guts for what you did for a while, but you will feel a huge burden having been lifted and can get on wiv your life.
